Every day you ask yourself: Am I ugly? Is there something wrong with my personality? When will someone ever like me? Well, chances are, someone does… just as a friend, though. Lol. I’m kidding. On a more serious note, have you ever asked yourself why you’re still single? We’re all tired of hearing cliched phrases like “your time will come” and “you just haven’t met the right guy”. Well, here are 3 of the real reasons why you probably still are.
You’re Too Busy.
Believe it or not, this could very well be the reason why you’re still single. You may be too focused on things that you deem as important for yourself and your career that you don’t find any time to go out on dates. Even though you want to meet guys and have dinner or lunch sometime, those never-ending meetings you have with your clients or org mates alway gets in the way. Wanna go out and party with your friends? Oh, wait. You have a report due tomorrow, so you’re gonna have to pass. If you really want a love life, though, you will need to think long and hard about your priorities. If you really want it, you will need to make some changes and actually make time for this aspect of your life in order for it to happen.
This is one problem that women with strong personalities or extra fashionable clothes deal with on a daily basis. You might overpower men too much or seem too high-maintenance. In conversations, you are probably the one who always speaks her thoughts all of the time. While you don’t really need to make any drastic changes to get someone to like you, you might want to tone things down a bit. You’ll never know how much a guy might want to come up to you to ask you out, if only your skyscraper heels didn’t make you seem so damn hard to reach in his eyes.
You’re Always With Your Friends.
How can guys approach you if you always have your girlfriends by your side? There isn’t anything wrong with having a lot of friends and hanging out with them a lot, but let’s face it: sometimes, that cute guy in the corner might just be too shy to approach you and say hi. This holds especially true if you’re the “one of the boys” type. If you are always hanging out with other guys, then he might think you’re already in a relationship with one of them. So, take a break once in a while and get some coffee by yourself sometime. Who knows? Mr. Right might just be watching you from the other table.
One way or another, it all boils down to being ready. No matter how much you might want to be in a relationship, you really have no choice but to wait and see if anyone comes your way. It’s not like boyfriends come in a box at the department store that you can just pick up and check out as needed (don’t we wish they did, though?). The key is to simply look and feel your best at all times. If you feel good about yourself, it will show, and you are sure to attract the right man in your life in the end.